12.28.2009
First (real) Snow...and maybe last of 2009!
I'm a slacker....
12.27.2009
The 2009 Caillier Family Christmas Letter
Merry Christmas to you and yours from all of us! This is our 1st Annual Family Christmas letter. We are so excited to share with you the comings and goings of our family this past year.
We love the holidays! The holidays mean family get togethers, staying up all night cooking, eating, playing games, visiting, reminiscing, making memories, laughter, counting our blessings and lots of hugs. There's never a menu planned, because we like and cook everything! Everyone's favorite is David's smoked turkey (always perfect) stuffed with a little piece of something yummy followed by the tradition (which will never be broken) of dirty rice and cornbread dressing. Everyone has a favorite dessert and we make them all! The grocery shopping has begun and the cupboards are bulging.
"Bitter Sweet" best describes 2009 for the Caillier family. There were many joyous and happy times as well as sad and difficult times. David's Dad, Jules Caillier passed away in April, leaving a tremendous void in our lives. We miss him terribly. He often told us, "don't worry about me, I've lived a good life, I have good family, good grandkids and I'm ready to go." Those sweet words have given us great peace and comfort. 2009 brought employment ups and downs for David but we have seen the Lord's hand in our daily lives as He continues to bless us. We still find our lives very busy and active with family, work and our church callings. We have a never ending (it seems like) garage building project, but there is light at the end of the tunnel. In August, Jacob returned with honor from a 2 year mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Days Saints. We are happy to have him back home and express our gratitude to him for his service.
We also had our "1st Annual Family Vacation". We spent the week of Thanksgiving in Orlando, Florida at Disney. It was fabulous! We had a wonderful time. David really enjoyed it…he stood in line to have his picture taken with Pocahontas (she was very pretty). He said it was because it was his birthday!
As always I love my time with my family, I miss Kim and Will because they are so far away, but I have been fortunate enough to be able to see them three times since they moved. . .I still travel a lot for work, so I stay on the go, including getting to San Antonio to see the Clercs'. . .that's about it for me. Merry Christmas everyone! :)
(Back to Mom) More importantly, we are thankful for what brings us together during the Christmas season, the Birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ. We are so humbly grateful to him for his wonderful gift. He gave us that gift at a price we cannot fathom. It was a gift He did not need for Himself; He did not need forgiveness. He is the source of our strength and light. Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to all of you from all of us!
Holiday Party!! Short and Sweet...
12.20.2009
12.18.2009
We're off to see the Wizard!!!
12.17.2009
Catch Up!!
2. Will's Dad and brother visited us for a little while. I haven't spent much time with my in-laws so it was nice to spend time getting to know them better. I also LOVE playing hostess! I really enjoy having guest and showing people all the things that we love about Boston. Yeah. I just admitted that I love this place. Anyway, I also got to help my little cousin with a project. Have you ever heard of Flat Stanley?? It is a really cool children's book. In the book Stanley makes himself flat and puts a stamp on himself and he goes around the world having adventures. My cousin, Lucas, got to make his very own Flat Stanley to send somewhere to have an adventure. Of all the people he could have chosen...Lucas picked Will and I! So, while we were taking Will's Dad and brother around Boston, we took Flat Stanly too!
12.16.2009
Prove me wrong
This is Will, breaking out of my shell, writing a blog for the first time! Hope I spell everything wright.... nm. Let me start by saying that I am in no way as good of a man as Kimmie makes me out to be. I do my best to be everything she needs but what can I say, I'm still a guy!
Examples:
- I love tech stuff, all tech stuff. If it has wires and moving parts, I want it!
- I don't give a darn about color schemes! Maybe I'm color blind, dunno, don't care.
- I would be content with the same pair of shoes for the rest of my life, Kim is teaching me about matching clothes! Thanks Kimmie!
- I don't like shopping....wait, I REALLY don't like shopping! No offense to department and clothing stores around the world, but its boring!
- Theres more I'm sure, but I'm a guy so I cant focus too long.
- Start with a simple one, put the toilet seat down. Not just after you're done, always!
- Chivalry is not dead, just misunderstood or misused. Open the door, any door, pick a door during the day and open it for her! Help her put on her coat before you go out, yeah I'm sure she can put it on her self, but wheres the fun in that. Just pay attention to her needs. Oh, and don't just do it when you did something wrong, do nice things all the time. Women aren't typically like men, they wont take for granted the nice things you do.... which leads me to my next point...
- Take notice and appreciate all the little things she does for you. Trust me, theres allot! Step back from your life and look at it from her perspective, you'll see allot of selfless things done by her for you. A smile, a kind word, a nice deed in return, its so simple guys!
- Be patient with her! Guys are notorious for being impatient. If something frustrates you, take a deep breath and relax. I know you can do it.
- If you love her, if you TRULY love her, say so! Say it often! Its a simple word with tons of meaning. Say it with meaning. Go a step further and take her hand, look into her eyes and say it like you did the first time. Yeah, i know its cheesy, just do it.
Prove me wrong guys, try some of these things or come up with some on your own and see if she doesn't appreciate it and feel more loved. Trust me, we can all improve and that's what life is all about!
Ladies, if you have any comments or lessons learned about the guys in your life, things they do that really tick you off or makes you happy, let me know. I'm still learning, and Kim deserves the best.
Will Worthen
11.19.2009
Well, hello there.
11.11.2009
Sad day...
11.09.2009
Honesty is always…
11.07.2009
Ch. 6 & 7
11.06.2009
Ok. Seriously.
Y'all know that every now and again I use my blog to vent and be pissy.
Well, it’s that time again.
Please don't let this hurt your feelings.
Please don't hate me.
Please know that if we are close friends and you have done some of the things that I am about to gripe about...You are allowed to joke with me and you know it. So don't stop. I love it when we laugh and pick on each other (you all know who you are).
Please try to see my point before you get all defensive...
I am not "calling" anyone one "out".
I am just saying how things make me feel.
OK.
Let us begin.
1. I had the swine flu. HAD. I don't anymore. I am NO LONGER CONTAGIOUS. Yes I may have been around you when I was contagious. I am sorry. I did not do it on purpose and it kinda hurts my feelings that people are acting like I have leprosy. I get it. You are scared. I know. You may think its a joke. You may be totally serious. If you are still afraid to be around me that is fine. Just stay away...you don't have to freak out in front of me.
This is mostly guilt talking. I do feel bad because I could have gotten a lot of people sick. However, as far as I know...I didn't. But thanks for worrying about me, I'm fine. All I am saying is be sensitive. I felt terrible thinking that someone might get it from me. I also had to spend 4 DAYS as a shut in eating only soup. I would like to be around people again. If you wanna use some hand sanitizer after you are around me...fine. Can it be less of a production please?
All that being said...some of you were way nicer to me that you needed to be. I greatly appreciate every call, text, fb message and every tweet of support and well wishes. I love you all bunches!
2. I do not belong to any group of people. I am free to hang out with whom ever I choose. I never liked being part of exclusive groups. I think that we are too old to label each other. We are to old to be jealous of someone spending more time with someone else. I may click with someone or my schedule my fit more with them so we spend a lot of time together. Maybe we are going through something similar and we are leaning on each other instead of sharing our problems with the world so they become topic of gossip of pity talks.
I like to talk to, associate with, call, text, shop with a lot of people,
some live in my apartment complex
some go to my church
some don't
some are stay at home mommies
some work out of the home
some have babies
some are trying
some are very grown up and mature
again some are still trying
some live down the street or far far away
some are students
My point is...I don't wear a label that says Overlook Ridge.
It is my address. Yes. I have friends that live here. I also have friends that don't.
Here I go....(I may hate myself in the morning) I HATE the following phrases
Overlook Ridge Gang
Overlook Ridge Girls
Overlook Ridge Families
Overlook Ridge Couples.
As a joke. OK. Or to be cute its fine. What I am trying to say...is that its sounds like we are an exclusive "members only club". We aren't. At least not in my opinion. I didn't think it was cool in high school and I don't think it’s cool now. Sure. We hang out a lot. We like each other. We live close. We attend the same church. that doesn't mean that the circle is closed. I love the people that live here and we have some dang good fun. I also love a lot of other people too. I think we all should have our small circles and our more intimate friendships. I just don't want to be in an exclusive group. I do like the walls that exist in them.
Sometimes I just need to say things out loud. It makes me feel better. Maybe it makes me look stupid and belligerent. Whatever.
Well...I should probably stop there.
I love you. Don't hate me.
PS- I care zero about grammar and spelling when I blog. I know that I use...to often and I have at least 7 run ons and 5 or 10 fragments. I am ok with that. K. Just wanted Y'all to know that I can write properly. I just don't. Love me in spite of my lazy writing style.